Please give me a refund now.
Nobody told me how hard the 40s would be.
I entered my 40s with excitement: 40s is the new 30s!π₯
40 things I've learnt now that I'm 40! π₯
Write a book! Travel! FIRE (financial independence, retire early)! π₯
And then reality hit me like a brick:
- My dad passed away last year
- More bad news than good news daily
- My long-time editor passed away in January
- Serious health diagnoses and mental illnesses
- Bankruptcies, retrenchments, business closures
Whoever said the 40s were the new 30s? π₯Ή
I want my money back now.
Anyway, here is my playbook for my 40s:
π I will do what I need to do for my family and kids. A mama bear will do what a mama bear has to do.
π I will not scale for the sake of scaling, leverage for the sake of leveraging. A self-funded, profitable business with a small footprint is your best bet in an era where anyone can start a digital business with zero investment and zero coding experience.
π Finally, I will live life like it is my last year, and my last decade. I've seen friends die in their 40s. There is no assurance we'll live a long and healthy life.
To anyone reading this in their 40s:
If you have been shackled by golden handcuffs and "what ifs," now is the time to find that backbone and pursue the life and career you always wanted. You still have plenty of time and energy.
If you've been living your parents' dream, remember they had their life to live out their dream. It is your life, your dream.
Finally, if you've been saving your money and telling yourself, "I'll enjoy myself when I make X amount of dollars or when my kids are 21..." forget it. Do it now.
Life is for living.
Money is for spending.
Time is for creating memories.
Join me in writing your bucket list down and start ticking it off one by one.
πΈ Photo: creating memories with my daughter in Kyoto, Japan last week. Photos by my daughter.
Nobody told me how hard the 40s would be.
I entered my 40s with excitement: 40s is the new 30s!π₯
40 things I've learnt now that I'm 40! π₯
Write a book! Travel! FIRE (financial independence, retire early)! π₯
And then reality hit me like a brick:
- My dad passed away last year
- More bad news than good news daily
- My long-time editor passed away in January
- Serious health diagnoses and mental illnesses
- Bankruptcies, retrenchments, business closures
Whoever said the 40s were the new 30s? π₯Ή
I want my money back now.
Anyway, here is my playbook for my 40s:
π I will do what I need to do for my family and kids. A mama bear will do what a mama bear has to do.
π I will not scale for the sake of scaling, leverage for the sake of leveraging. A self-funded, profitable business with a small footprint is your best bet in an era where anyone can start a digital business with zero investment and zero coding experience.
π Finally, I will live life like it is my last year, and my last decade. I've seen friends die in their 40s. There is no assurance we'll live a long and healthy life.
To anyone reading this in their 40s:
If you have been shackled by golden handcuffs and "what ifs," now is the time to find that backbone and pursue the life and career you always wanted. You still have plenty of time and energy.
If you've been living your parents' dream, remember they had their life to live out their dream. It is your life, your dream.
Finally, if you've been saving your money and telling yourself, "I'll enjoy myself when I make X amount of dollars or when my kids are 21..." forget it. Do it now.
Life is for living.
Money is for spending.
Time is for creating memories.
Join me in writing your bucket list down and start ticking it off one by one.
πΈ Photo: creating memories with my daughter in Kyoto, Japan last week. Photos by my daughter.